Archive for October 24, 2006

Ignorance in the face of victory

Today, the New York Transit Authority settled a lawsuit with a transgendered woman. She had been arrested three times for using the women’s bathroom in the subway (she works for Verizon and was repairing payphones in the subway).

When I heard this story on the morning news, they chose to devote a lot of airtime to some “woman in the street” interview spewing a lot of ignorance. Seriously, they give major news ten seconds and this woman was quoted twice, for a total that must have approached a half a minute.

First, she blathered about how “they” shouldn’t be in the “wrong” bathroom and so on and just basically expressed her discomfort with the whole notion of transgender. And then she said how the obvious solution was to have them use the bathroom for their “real” gender.

Right. Because it would be so much more welcome for a woman to show up in the men’s room. That would definitely go over better. Geez Pete, even if you insist that a transgendered woman is “really” a man, how thoughtless do you have to be not to envision the kind of problems, including violence, that would ensue?

The beer is out there

Jill at Feministe is on a roll. This is frickin brilliant:

And while I’ve written before about the headscarf and the hijab, my opinion that they should be neither required nor outlawed, and my belief that a woman can wear whatever she wants and still be a perfectly autonomous human being, I do have a big problem with the underlying message behind the idea that women should always dress modestly. It essentially comes down to the idea that men are incapable of interacting with women in public, and that women should shoulder the burden of men’s animal nature by covering themselves and not “tempting” them. It’s sort of like blaming grocery stores for alcoholism — I mean, the grocery stores put the beer out there!

This is such a great quote. It was in the middle of a very long (and great) post, so I wanted to highlight it. It’s smart about feminism and women’s choices. It’s smart about rape and contraception and “asking for it” and being punished for choosing it. The hard right has been expanding its anti-choice umbrella to include more and more. To include contraception and “immodest” attire. These rights are at risk. So it’s good to trace it back to the underlying message:

Women must not trick men into having sex. Women are permitted to trick men into marriage in order to have sex, on condition that they be punished by the inequality of marriage and the inability to control how many children they will have.

That’s the Christian Right anti-choice message in a nutshell. Whenever they disguise their agenda as being about “life” or “choice” or “protecting women” or “decency,” run it through the anti-choice message translator and see if it doesn’t change significantly.

Best dinner ever

Sauté leeks in garlic & oil over low heat for about 15 minutes.

Add ten peeled shrimp and one cubed tomato, and cook about 5 minutes more.

Add a handful of frozen peas and some fresh thyme, and cook about 3 minutes more.

Serve with pasta. Your eyes will roll back in your head.

Mythic dream

Every now and then you dream in mythology. This was very interesting. It’s a little dirty, so stop reading if you can’t handle naked body parts.

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