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People reviewing this blog

So, that blog review meme asked me to post reviews I received. I got two:

Amy: I’m not sure how long I’ve been reading Deb’s blog, but I know that Fanty and Mingo were kittens then and are grown-up cats now. This is an interesting blog because you never know quite what you’re going to get or when you’ll get it — except with Monday Movie Review, Tuesday Trivia (I generally do very poorly on the trivia, unless it’s Whedonverse), or Sunday Meditation. But it’s not as predictable as that might sound. My point is that a blog that bridges the gap between James Bond and feminism is worth reading frequently.

Cosette: Deborah has some of my favorite qualities in people. She’s smart, honest, opinionated, funny, a feminist, a Wiccan, and a film buff. What’s not to like?

So, thanks to you both, those are nice reviews.

Decades Trivia: All Solved

Once again, my crew of experts made short work of the trivia. Yum, trivia.

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Tuesday Trivia: Seven Decades

Each movie is from a different decade:

1. “I had a friend once used to collect postage stamps. He always said the one good thing about a postage stamp: it always sticks to one thing ’til it gets there, y’know?”
Solved by Melville (comment #2).

2. “I don’t smoke, I only drink champagne when I’m lucky enough to get it, my hair is naturally natural, I live alone… and so do you.”
Solved by maurinsky (comment #8).

3. “Do sit down, Sergeant. Shocks are so much better absorbed with the knees bent.”
Solved by Evn (comment #5).

4. “The prettiest sight in this fine pretty world is the privileged class enjoying its privileges.”
Solved by Tom Hilton (comment #1).

5. “Now look! We’ve figured it seventeen different ways, and each time we figured it, it was no good, because no matter how we figured it, somebody don’t like the way we figured it! So now, there’s only one way to figure it.”
Solved by Tom Hilton (comment #1).

6. “I just don’t like my son spending all his time with a man who carries a gun and goes around whacking people.”
Solved by Barbs (comment #10).

7. “You’re not a god. You can take my word for it; this is twelve years of Catholic school talking.”
Solved by Melville (comment #2).

Anthony Minghella has died

He was 54 years old.

I loved Truly Madly Deeply and The Talented Mr. Ripley. I did not love Cold Mountain, it had a lot of problems. It also had enough absolute brilliance that I would happily recommend it to anyone, with some caveats about the shit-ass ending and the performance of Rene Zellwegger and Nicole Kidman’s horrendous accent.

He was clearly a talented and visionary writer/director, and he should have produced a lot more work. Should have. We don’t know these things; how long we have, how long we’re meant to have. Art, creation, work, we want them to last, to continue. We want each piece of brilliance to beget a new piece of brilliance. Eventually, that stops happening. And sometimes eventually is really damn soon.

May he be born again.

Monday Movie Review: Bunny Lake is Missing

Bunny Lake is Missing (1965) 9/10
Ann Lake (Carol Lynley) drops off her four-year old daughter Bunny for her first day of school, just a few days after moving to London from America. When Bunny disappears and no one can recall seeing her, the police inspector (Laurence Olivier) begins to suspect that Bunny never existed at all. Directed by Otto Preminger.

Until two weeks ago, I had never heard of this movie, then, in rapid succession, it came up in two different conversations (one about films of 1965, and one about the title designs of Saul Bass) and was shown on TCM. So I had to see it. And…wow.

Most of this movie is a mystery; a slow build of tension and confusion. It feels more like a Hitchcock movie than anything else; a blonde woman slowly falling apart, a victim disbelieved, kind, unhelpful police, vaguely threatening oddballs. Ultimately, it resolves into a thriller, when the mystery is revealed and the danger becomes plain.

Ann and Steven (Keir Dullea) are brother and sister. That they live together with Ann’s “illegitimate” daughter strikes the police as odd. The landlord (Noel Coward), is also odd; he lets himself into the flat whenever he pleases, is somewhat well known, and may be “a pervert” (which Olivier dismisses as impossible with “He’s on the BBC”). The nursery school is a chaotic nightmare (the sort of place that absolutely terrified me when I had a toddler; it seems downright likely that such a school would lose children). The school is in an enormous old Victorian building (a former private home or hotel or something) and at the top is a flat, where lives the retired founder, whom Steven refers to as the “resident witch.” She studies the nightmares of children, playing recordings of their voices recounting their terrors for a book she is writing.

At first, Ann, alone and then with Steven, searches the school herself. This is a terrifying sequence, in the way that ordinary, blasé things can be terrifying. The rambling home has ten thousand places a child could hide or be lost. The staff is uncooperative, hostile, strange, or absent. The director is in the hospital. The teacher had a dental emergency and left her class mid-morning. The cook who was temporarily watching Bunny stormed out and cannot be found. Crowds of children, complaining parents, room after room…if you’re a parent, you cannot watch this scene without recalling every time your own child was missing for five minutes, and as Bunny remains missing, your heart clutches tighter and tighter.

Then the police are called, and question everyone, bring dogs, all that. They want a photograph of Bunny. At first, Ann explains that not everything has arrived yet from America, but then she remembers that Bunny’s passport is at the flat. And now the mystery deepens, because the flat has been emptied of everything that Bunny owned. There are two toothbrushes at the sink where earlier there had been three. There is no nightgown, no bathrobe, no doll. The police begin to suspect that Bunny is imaginary, that Ann is insane.

Of course, Ann acts increasingly insane. Is it because it’s true? Or is it normal to be more and more panicky when your child is missing? Either could be the case.

The story is a slow build. I never figured out the answer to the mystery until the movie was good and ready to show me, and it was definitely a satisfying conclusion. There are plot holes, but they are very small; plot pinholes, really.

Olivier has little to do; nothing that requires a gifted actor. But the atmosphere, the characters, the filming, and the script all add up to an excellent, atmospheric film.

Sunday Meditation: Cleaning

I often meditate while cleaning. Specifically, while cleaning my altar or while preparing my home for ritual. This is a focused meditation, clearing the mind and thinking about meaning while I clean.

So I was delighted to find this blog post about cleaning in a Zen context, that mentions meditating while cleaning.

I like to think of a Zen monk sweeping the floors of a temple when I sweep. It’s corny, maybe, but it really helps me focus on the sweeping, and it’s a form of meditation. In this way, I actually enjoy the cleaning, although I’d rather be writing to be honest.

I think she’s slipping here. The trick is to stay in the moment, and not engage with what you’d rather be doing. Be here now.

So, suppose I’m scrubbing the tub for a ritual bath. I hate scrubbing the tub. It makes my back ache, it’s physically awkward, and frankly it never resuls in the Clean Tub I’d like, just a clean tub, if you know what I mean. I want it to sparkle like it’s new and it doesn’t.

But here’s what I do. I center myself, and visual the bath I’ll be taking. I align myself with a ritual purpose. I am doing ritual, just as much as I will be when I’m in the bath. Now, you can just do that, visualize bathing as you scrub, visualize having ritual seated on the carpet while you vacuum, and so on.

But I add a cognitive component: As I scrub, I meditate on the meaning of cleanliness, or of this particular bath. What does it mean to be spiritually clean? As I clean the temple, vacuum the rug, wash the altar, I ask myself about the inner nature of the temple, of the altar. As I dust my private worship altar, I meditate on the relationship I have with that altar. What does it mean to clean the idol, to serve the deity in that way?

These are deep meditations that can take me on interesting journeys. I value them.

And while I will never love the dishpan hands, or scrubbing the tub, doing these meditations takes me far beyond what I’d “rather be” doing and allows me to be fully present for a spiritual task.

Official is not an opinion!

There’s a series of radio commercials that I tend to hear whenever I listen for a weather report while getting ready for work. These are Subaru commercial specifically targeted to New York radio. The most recent set points out that more Subarus are sold in New York than any other state. This is obviously because New York is the most populous state that has snowy roads, but the commercials tell me that it’s because New Yorkers are special special people who want special special Subarus.

Whatever.

All of these commercials end as follows: “That’s why, in our opinion, Subaru is the official car of New York.”

And then, each and every morning, my head explodes.

David Paterson

It seems like everyone likes David Paterson, who will become New York’s governor on Monday. He is described as both more liberal and better at getting along with Republicans than Eliot Spitzer. And of course, people are very interested in saying “New York’s first black governor” and “First blind governor,” because people love saying “first” anything, and yes, it is important.

I live in New York. It’s been all Spitzer, all the time, here. My carpool buddy and I were listening to NPR on the way home (when I drive we listen to music) and there was a brief clip of Paterson from 14 months ago, talking about working with Spitzer and becoming Lt. Governor.

I have to say I was stunned by how much I enjoyed listening to him. He was articulate and almost musical in his ability to express himself. At the same time, he sounded relaxed and conversational, as if he was talking to exactly one person and making a vital connection to her. I wanted to run out and vote for him. And my buddy said that she’d seen a long interview with him (like 45 minutes) on a news show, and she ended up absolutely in love with him. That he was like that; articulate and beautifully-phrased, intelligent and thoughtful, yet relaxed and intimate, all the way through.

There’s certainly something exciting about seeing a genuinely wonderful Democrat rise in the party and in public recognition. Certainly many of us thought that’s what we were seeing with Spitzer, and that feels like shit. But the silver lining is Paterson and I am eager to see what comes of his career.

The Abdication

Everyone at the office just gathered around the TV to watch Governor Spitzer’s resignation.

In a culture in which “If I offended, I apologize” is considered an apology rather than the mealy-mouthed avoidance of true responsibility (see: John McCain), I thought his brief speech was an exercise in dignity and decency. He took full responsibility, apologized, and acknowledged that he had not lived up to his own standards. In his famously pugnacious style, he took a moment to say his standards were right. Possibly that was ill-timed. Also in poor taste, but apparently de rigeur these days, was the presence of his wife at his side. She looked haggard and drained. It must have been torture for her. She should have been spared the additional burden; she’s been burdened enough. People speculate on what goes on behind closed doors. And rightly so; not every marriage is the Cleavers. But this was clearly not a woman who’d known all along.

So, New Yorker have our first black governor, and I believe our first blind governor as well. David Patterson is, by all reports, very well-liked.

And life goes on.

I am just not that interesting

Evn tagged me with this crazy meme. Unfortunately, he may find he is a far more interesting subject for this meme than I am.

Open up your desk drawers. Rummage about. List ten things you find there:

1. Dental floss

2. Blue Diamond Wasabi & Soy Sauce flavored almond

3. 2 Chinese menus, an Indian/Mediterranean fusion menu, and a sushi bar menu.

4. A keyboard duster. Which is not a long sweater worn by a keyboard.

5. An open thing of Theraflu. Ohmigods that stuff is nasty.

6. My boss’s business card.

7. 3 packets of “Throat Coat” herbal tea.

8. Records from a dispute I had when Carnival Cruise lost my packages in 2006.

9. A chip clip (that says Chip Clip® on it).

10. A Post-it note with recommendations for interesting Indian music from an Indian co-worker who found out I liked A. R. Rahman.

I tag Roberta, Aimai, Kate, and Maurinsky, and you can use non-drawer desk surfaces.