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Sunday Meditation: How Not to Meditate

Yesterday I decided to pray at my Kali altar. I was feeling stressed and I felt like praying. Most of the time, I pray at the altar in lieu of meditation. It has all of the calming effects of meditation, the prayer serves as a focal point, and it’s meaningful to me.

So anyway, I start by doing all the prep that I do. I clean the altar. Clean off the chair and put it in front of the altar. Put on the music. Light the candles. Light the incense. Get my rosary (mala).

With my mala in my hand, I am prepared to chant 108 times. After the third time, I hear

“Mom?”

I’m going to ignore this. I chant a fourth time.

“Mom?”

So. I won’t go into the whole story of what happened after that. It wasn’t pretty. I never did get back to my prayer. And the point is, to prepare to meditate, you really have to know that you can meditate. You really should inform the people you live with. You need quiet, and you need to be unencumbered. I forgot that.

Yay, I got flowers

From my sister.

Update: Nom nom nom

More evidence that women aren’t people

Current commercial for Jeopardy‘s College Championship tournament.

Paraphrasing…
Announcer: “Inside the mind of the average college student:”
Student: “Girls, girls, girls, pizza, girls.”
Announcer: “Inside the mind of a Jeopardy College Championship contestant:”
Student: “Nuclear fission, history of Europe, girls, girls, girls.”
Announcer: “College Championship contestants are just like any college student, only smarter.”

My question: College students are all male? Are, on average, male?

The picture of Alex Trebek with the contestants shows nine girls and seven boys. So I’m not faulting the show itself. But whoever does the advertising apparently thinks “students” equals “male students.”

One of the things that sexism is about is making the male the normative, the default, person. People=men. Women=other. It’s the Kanga syndrome. It’s always disheartening, always offensive, and pretty much always present.

The reflection in the painting

One thing you’ll hear about in meditation is the idea of unhooking your gaze. Look at the candle but don’t look. Look into the water without seeing it. That sort of thing. Not only is it a part of many meditation exercises , but it’s the crux of scrying—the divination art that includes crystal-gazing.

It can make you crazy if you don’t understand it. There’s a definite “What do you mean ‘look but don’t look’?” out there.

So I’m at work and I’m making a cup of coffee and I realize I really should check my hair but I don’t want to run to the ladies room because I’m making coffee. There’s a big framed painting hanging in the kitchen, so I use the reflection in the painting’s glass.

Now get this. I’m looking at the painting, but I’m not seeing the painting, I’m seeing me reflected in the painting’s glass.

The only difference in meditation and scrying is that you don’t know what you’re looking for in the reflection. But you do know you’re not looking at the painting.

Fun With Language: Internet Edition

Someone told me she was putting a website up on the Internet.

Where else would you put it?

Song Trivia Solutions

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Tuesday Trivia: Songs

1. Thinking herself alone on the beach, she sings while he secretly watches. Then he sings the next line.
HINT: NOT A MUSICAL
Solved by Ben (comment #14).

2. A parade through Chicago with the title character singing from a float in the lead.
Solved by Evn (comment #1).

3. In order to sell sheet music, they perform songs in the music store. He sings it up-tempo, then she takes over and sings it as a ballad.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

4. He sings to a bunch of French children as a way of teaching them English.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

5. They sing about their marriage while staring blankly into TV monitors.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

6. In this film adaptation of a Broadway hit, a song that was cut from the film version can be heard playing on the radio in the main characters’ apartment.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

7. They dance to the song while on line to collect their Unemployement checks.
Solved by Roberta (comment #3).

Money is News, News is Money

I totally get tired of all the business reporting on the radio. I like listening to NPR when they’re doing interesting things like All Things Considered, but sometimes it’s like all money, all the time. So fine, when “Market Watch” comes on I change the station.

But this morning, there was this interesting news from Turkey. The vote for President is undecided and there have been voting boycotts. Almost a million people rioted against the candidacy of a conservative Muslim, fearing their secular identity is at risk. So what was the headline on the radio? “Markets in Turkey dropped more than 8% in response to anxiety about…”

This wasn’t the financial news. This was the lead story on the international news segment.

“Markets dropped eight percent”? Not “Protestors filled the streets” or “Turkey’s government in a showdown” or something, y’know, about the story? It’s as if the only way to present news to Americans is to talk about American dollars first. Because otherwise it’s not interesting.

Maybe that’s not just an irritating way to present the news. Maybe it’s actually offensive.

Monday Movie Review: Times Square

Times Square (1980) 8/10
Pam (Trini Alvarado) and Nicky (Robin Johnson) escape from a hospital psychiatric unit and make a life for themselves in the pre-Disneyfied Times Square of New York City. With the help of a popular DJ (Tim Curry) they make their case for freedom and develop a cult following.

Times Square is both a cult movie, and about cults, and seems to be a self-conscious attempt to create a cult about itself (which failed—the real cult following was entirely different).

Although Tim Curry was given top billing, his is a supporting role. The real stars were the two teenage unknowns, Alvarado and Johnson. The story follows these two opposites-who-attract as they escape together from a hospital where they’re undergoing psychiatric and neurological tests. Pam is the daughter of a well-known politician; she is depressed and withdrawn and we clearly see that these tests are her father’s way of throwing money at the problem rather than really be involved with his daughter. Her hospital roommate Nicky is clearly disturbed; she is also exciting, electric and incredibly bold, and Pam is intensely attracted to her.

Curry plays a DJ with a bit of a cult following, and here the movie is clearly playing on Curry’s cult appeal to Rocky Horror fans — in 1980, Curry was still sexy as hell, was recording rock albums (remember I Do the Rock?) and the Rocky Horror cultwas in full swing. I certainly knew fans in the eighties who were happy to form a cult around any movie Curry was in—some were even seeing Annie every week!

Curry’s character reads warm platitudes and heartfelt letters from teenage girls between playing 80s punk and New Wave songs. He realizes that the runaway politician’s daughter has written to him in the past and helps to create a teen cult following for the “Sleez Sisters,” as the girls call themselves.

There’s a lot going on here. The “Sleez” motif stands in opposition to a father who wants to clean up Times Square; of course he and his ilk have won by 2007. Although the movie—through Curry’s voice—is very preachy about this, you also get to see for yourself the vitality and value of the filthy, un-cleaned-up streets.

In addition, there’s the creation of a cult at work. The movie doesn’t much examine what this means, and I had a sneaking suspicion that the real intention of the filmmakers was to create the very cult they depicted, which of course makes the whole thing irritating and heavy-handed. But it’s there and available for the viewer to ask—what happens when something real and vital becomes just another fashion statement? What does fandom do to its object of adoration?

There’s also the story of the liberation of these two girls, which is over-done, and again seems designed to make other girls become adoring fans of the Sleez Sister message, but there’s a core of real beauty to it.

The relationship between the girls is clearly romantic, and that’s where it developed its real cult following—from showings at lesbian festivals. Much of the lesbian content was never filmed, and most of the rest landed on the cutting room floor—so much so that you know there are missing pieces as you watch; it’s often obvious you’re seeing the second part of something without a preceding scene to establish it. Nonetheless, there is passion, adoration, loyalty and tenderness between these girls, and it works.

The first time I saw this movie, I saw the surface stuff; “No Sense Makes Sense” and “they” think that bad girls are crazy. But Nicky clearly is crazy, and the script and acting portray that with a clear eye.

Finally, Times Square has one of the best rock and roll soundtracks around; Suzi Quatro, The Pretenders, D.L. Byron and Patti Smith among others. The soundtrack itself has a cult following, and deservedly so.

Sunday Meditation: Beltane Fires

Last night we celebrated Beltane. A little early but the best Saturday night for the job. It was a fabulous night. We do a lot of fun Beltane stuff every year. A maypole, of course. The “scarf chase” from Eight Sabbats for Witches. Last night, I decided to add a second fire to the ritual space so that we could pass between the Beltane fires. This is a traditional Beltane activity. You passed yourself and/or your cattle and/or your farm implements between two Beltane fires for purification, fertility, and good fortune.

So, before we passed between the fires, I asked everyone to meditate on what they were taking in, and now I ask you to do the same.

Ground and center.

You are going to pass between two fires for “fertility.” What does that mean to you?

Perhaps it is physical fertility. Perhaps you want to conceive, or to give birth to a healthy baby, or for your breast milk to be abundant and nourishing. Perhaps it is the fertility of nurturance, you want food on the table, or a restoration of health or wholeness. Visualize the fertility that is health and growth.

Perhaps you want the fertility of expansion; a new relationship, a new job, a new home, a journey.

Perhaps you seek the fertility of abundance: Love, money, plenty, and joy.

Think about having fertility, and think about taking it in.

Fire warms you. Feel the warmth that comes from the fire and how it reaches deep inside you. How you take it in. How it warms your very cells. The fire becomes a part of you, you will carry it, and its blessings, throughout the year. It will be with you as you enjoy your summer. It will warm you at Samhain.

Take for yourself the blessings of Beltane fires, and let them warm you throughout the year.

So mote it be.